Do lesbians have group sex... ever? this is in a totally different direction than my previous question...
i've been talking to a couple of mates at a social gathering recently and somehow hit the lesbian orgy/group sex topic. in south africa this is unheard of. not even my partner knows of any lesbian group sex EVER happening in SA (she has been out for 20 yrs and actively involved in LGBT activism for the past 9 yrs). the gay men of south africa, however, seem to have a pretty universal approach to group sex. is this just the southern hemisphere or what? do lesbians have group sex on some regular basis anywhere in the world?
As an honest lesbian, i'd honestly like to know. |
| Yes and it's great thanks. Not giving details on here though. |
Do you think the singing group Wilson Phillips sing, have lesbian sex and then smoke every single day? Just wondering... |
| I bet the big one is on the bottom... |
Are there any lesbian organizations that aren't sex related? Come on, ladies...there has to be a lesbian group, club, meeting, chat room that isn't completely sex oriented. I'm not looking for a date, just some friends. Any ideas? For the Northwest/Washington area? Thank you for your maturity. |
| like i said, a lesbian group without sex is like christmas without santa claus |
How can a lesbian group herself with homosexuals men when they are so different? and not perceived the same way, actually lesbianism goes hand and hand with straight sex for men |
No it doesn't Zelle paris
Melody♫♪ |
Threesome and lesbian sex? Here is the deal..I have this guy who has been my best friend forever and he was actually in love with me and I was always to scared to let him in..anyways..long story short we are in love and he is in the marines so we can't be together until june...things have gotten serious over the phone(really serious!) and he asked if I would be willing to have a threesome with another girl. To be honest, I have thought about it alot and some of my favorite porn is lesbian and group porn..it really turns me on..I told him I would love to try it and he introduced me to a girl from around here that I have known and knew she was bi...well we started talking and he asked if I would sleep with her without him there..at first I was like no...but now I really want to...She said it's been a while since she has been with a girl and I have never been with one and she has also never had a threesome...we talked about how it would get us worked up for when he would come home..that way we are both comfortable with eachother and he said go for it...I dont think I would be this nervous about trying it if I didnt know who she was..but I went to school with her..and I actually had dated her older brother in high school...so it makes it wierd...but oh man do I want to :) I just need to build up the courage but I am wondering if someone could tell me how...I wouldn't be nervous with her if I had another girl before but since I haven't it makes me feel like an ammature..
please dont judge...i just like some spice in the bedroom and he is the one suggesting everything..im just going with it.. |
You really shouldn't worry about being judged, you are doing a good thing by looking for some basic advice, no one here is a psychiatrist. I think that another woman would be the best person to give you perspective on this topic but from what I have read let me give you my 2 canadian cents.
I think your doing a good job at being proactive at looking at ways to further your sexual resume and experience. Trying a lesbian experience is something that you appear open to and you have communicated this with your partner and got the green light, good for you! You were honest and that is gonna be awesome for your relationship. Some of us have difficulty using our game or mojo if you will when trying to spark a sexual experience even with the same sex! Sometimes you just gotta set the mood and try ie. wine, porn, racy movie, whatever. Nervousness in new sexual experiences is so normal that you shouldn't sweat it at all. |
Is lesbian sex between two women better than sex between a man and his woman? I girl I know from my christian group told me a couple of months ago that she had had sex with another girl she met in college. She said it was OK because we are all gods creations and He doesn't mind who we do it with. Recently I have developed sexual feelings for women too, and I know one who is really nice and who is openly gay. Should I "hit" on her?
FIRST QUESTION: Is that true? Does God just not mind? and if he doesn't . . .
SECOND QUESTION: which is better, lesbian or straight sex? |
| It's your life you can do whatever you want with it, and no religion can tell you otherwise. |
"L" of LGBT: I am a silly gay man that is naive on Lesbian sex? What do you mean when you say one tops and one bottoms. For example, I was with a group of gay friends, and me and this other guy said we are both versatile, but then to my surprise two of the girls said they were tops. I mean, I know what that means for gay guys, but I don't know to which feature of Lesbian sex that refers. I mean, I know you have sex, that's obvious, I am not one of those dee-dee-deeees that are saying "What do Lesbians do?!?", I just don't get the terminology. Thanks. |
Gwennie is right.
I am a top, because I prefer to do most of the work sexually. I enjoy pleasing my girl and watching her reaction to what I'm doing only increases my arousal. I love to have her please me as well, but I am more aggressive in bed.
The terms top and bottom don't necessarily mean that lesbians always stick to being either a top or bottom. It just means that a majority of the time: they either love to do the pleasing and take control, or they love to be pleased and surrender control. The terms can also be used to describe individual sexual encounters ie: "Last night, I topped Jane Doe." |
Why is it socially acceptable to be lesbian but not to be gay? Why is it ok to be lesbian but not to be gay? Even in porn you see lesbians everywhere. It is acceptable. In group sex porn lesbians kiss and everything else but you never see two guys kiss except in gay pron and that is considered fetish. Why is this? It seems that lesbians are loved but gays are bashed. As a gay man I am afraid to come out of the closet just because of this. If I were a lesbian everyone would throw a party for me but as a gay man they want to hang me from the nearest tree. There is even a website called godhatesfags.com and it's a religious website. It's not called godhateslesbians.com. I'm sure the men in that church wouldn't have no objection to two hot chicks making out |
| That's not true at all. Both gay men and lesbians have prejudice thrown at them. And if you're going to bring up tv, you see more gay men on tv than you do lesbians. And it's almost always in a good light. The women you see kissing each other most of the time aren't even lesbians. They are just straight girls acting "sexy". Don't make it seem like anyone has it easier than someone else. Because they don't. Everyone faces challenges. It's up to the person to decide how they want to face them. |
Gay and lesbian sex.... Which does society frown upon more? My friends did a small survey and we came to a conclusion amongst people in their early twenties... what age group would you be in and whats ur opinion?
under 20
20-30
30-40
40-50
50+
Ps Im gay so not homophobic before you guys have a go!!! |
I'm 20-30...
A homosexual male here but I would have to say that homosexual sex is frowned upon far more than lesbian...
This is most likely due to the crude impression that hetersexuals have of sex between two males... whereas lesbian sex is known for its sensual nature! |